By Lauren Hartley
NEW YORK — The morning of Saturday, Sept. 21 Sen. Zellnor Myrie joined New Yorkers United for Child Care for a Town Hall with parents at a Park Slope playground. While kids stumbled across the fall-proof rubber playground surface, parents had the chance to share their experiences and concerns about raising kids in New York City, particularly the growing cost burden of childcare.
“There is no way for a middle-class family to be able to afford to stay here if child care is cost prohibitive, if housing is cost prohibitive, and if you don’t have the opportunity for economic success,” said Sen. Myrie. “We are going to lose entire generations of New Yorkers.”
For many New Yorkers, affording to raise a family in the city is becoming increasingly unattainable. In 2023, the Citizens’ Committee for Children found that more than 80% of families with children under five in New York City cannot afford childcare. Rising rent prices and stagnant wages have made the cost of living unsustainable for families.
The Town Hall opened with remarks from Rebecca Bailin, Executive Director of New Yorkers United for Child Care, “The cost of raising kids in New York City is too expensive. So many of us feel like we have to leave New York when we have a child,” Bailin said, opening it up for parents to share.
The cost of childcare, which can exceed $20,000 annually per child, is a point of stress for many families, mentioned throughout the Town Hall. A father of two explained that he pays $2,500 a month per child for daycare, amounting to $60,000 a year.
The median salary in Kings County is $76,912.
Parents also struggle to secure spots in 3-K, New York City’s free, full-day educational program for three-year-old children. Universal Pre-K, one of Mayor Bill De Blasio’s major initiatives, has been undercut by budget cuts to early education under Mayor Eric Adams. As a result, only half of the city’s school districts can guarantee a 3-K seat, leaving parents to navigate a lottery system which can be confusing and may favor those who are able to spend the hefty costs of 2K.
Ilyssa Meyer, a mother of a five-month-old who lives in Prospect Heights, is paying $30,000 for child care this year, with help from her mother.
“It was a big investment because luckily they have 3-K in Prospect Heights. So hopefully, if everything works out, we pay a whole bunch of money upfront but then get the free option, preferential spots – hopefully, if it all works out.”
Meyer’s family, like many others, is banking on paying for earlier years of care to secure priority for a free 3-K spot.
Sen. Myrie addressed these concerns, sharing his personal experience with child care.
“I am a born and raised New Yorker. I would not have been able to become a senator, a lawyer, if we didn’t have after-school programming which provided something for my mom,” he said to the circle of parents. “Like most New Yorkers, she didn’t get off at 3 p.m.”
Sen. Myrie also acknowledged the issues with 3-K and pointed to the lack of execution on the existing framework. He highlighted the lack of available seats in the program, which has left many families without options.
“A failure to match available seats with demand is purely administrative incompetence.”